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Chapter 1:- Breaking up is hard to do
There is no good way or best time to break up with your boyfriend. The only way you know is when that feeling in the back of your chest doesn’t go away. You shouldn’t feel bad that you haven’t broken up with them yet or that you aren’t where you want to be in life. Humans are creatures of emotions and we make decisions based on what makes us feel better, not what is better for us.
Don’t beat yourself up for knowing what to do, but not doing it. If we were completely cold beings devoid of feelings, it would be easy, but we’re humans full of fear, anxiety, and loathing, but we also have hope. Know that you deserve better. You are better. You deserve a small chance at happiness. A mate should not complete you, but complement you. We fear many things and fear and loneliness are two of our greatest motivators, but we fear in a break-up that we’ll never find anyone again the most. That may be, but would you rather live without ever finding someone or the wrong someone all your life? This is easier said than done. It may take years for you to break up with someone, but that doesn’t mean you are less than who you are.
You need friends and family in a break-up. It is so hard to do it by yourself. Even if you already know everything that they will say, it is comforting to hear a friend repeat those same things back to you.
Break-ups hurt tremendously, even when you’re the one doing the breaking up, and as humans, we try to avoid that much pain at all cost, so we put it off. This is whey women are so vulnerable to rebounds and going back to their exes. There is nothing wrong with going back, but most women do it to ease the pain a little. Put some distance and time between you. If you’re supposed to get back with them, it will naturally happen.
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